Oneness in marriage happens when married spouses establish deep intimacy and connection within themselves. They trust themselves, believe in their dreams, and dedicate their time and attention to work toward accomplishing the goals and aspirations they have identified.

Employ Proximity: The closer you are to each other physically, sexually, financially, mentally etc, the more united you'll become. Eat, sleep, talk, bathe, walk, pray and dress together. Closeness, if well handled, facilitates unity among husband and wife.

Becoming a "we" couple can be as simple as starting to use the word more. Think of things that brought you together and keep you together. Is it being parents, charitable work, common hobbies, a love for sports or the environment... these things may be simple or profound.